In-person in west linn & online across oregon
therapy for anxiety
Anxiety’s like that overzealous friend who means well but ends up causing chaos. It’s convinced danger’s around every corner, and it’s running your life like a 24/7 emergency drill.
You don’t have to live like your brain’s on fire all the time.
We tend to treat anxiety like it’s irrational — but it’s not. Most of the time, it’s built from real experiences that went unresolved or left a mark. Your brain learned that certain situations might not be safe, and it started working overtime to keep you protected. The problem is, over time that alarm system gets jumpy. What started as “don’t get hurt again” slowly turns into “better brace for everything.”
That’s when anxiety starts running the show — when grocery shopping feels impossible, your thoughts spiral into what-ifs, and your brain keeps catastrophizing things that haven’t even happened. Therapy helps you slow that process down and rebuild trust in yourself — in your ability to handle stress, uncertainty, and whatever comes next. When you remember that you can cope, you don’t have to keep living in endless loops trying to outthink every possible disaster.
This isn’t about “fixing” you or slapping a coping skill on top of a deeper wound.
My approach
Anxiety work isn’t one-size-fits-all — and it definitely isn’t about forcing yourself to “think better.”
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Anxiety isn’t the villain of your story—it’s the narrator trying to keep you safe, even if it’s gotten a little overzealous. We’ll zoom out from the racing thoughts and spirals to look at why your system learned to react that way. When we hold the whole story—the stress, the history, the context—you get to work with your anxiety instead of fighting it.
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There’s always a reason your brain or body responds the way it does. Maybe you learned to stay hyper-alert because chaos used to come out of nowhere. Maybe your worry is really your nervous system trying to prepare for impact. Together, we’ll connect those dots so your reactions start to make sense—and so you can choose what actually helps now.
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Forget cookie-cutter coping skills. The goal isn’t to force you into a mindfulness routine you’ll abandon in a week—it’s to find what works for you. We’ll experiment, adjust, and create tools that actually fit your life, not just your diagnosis. Because the right strategies should feel supportive, not performative.
The process
Therapy can help you find steady, not perfect.
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Reach out: Click the link to schedule a consult or send me a message. We’ll talk through what’s going on and what you’re hoping to get out of therapy — no pressure, no scripts.
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Get curious: We’ll unpack what’s really fueling your anxiety — the patterns, the history, the “why your brain does this” — without judgment or psychobabble.
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Learn real strategies: We’ll experiment with tools and strategies that actually fit your life (not someone else’s checklist). You get to decide what sticks.
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Build something steadier: Over time, the noise quiets down. You start to trust yourself more. And those moments of calm? They start showing up on their own.
Peace isn’t the absence of anxiety — it’s the presence of self-trust.
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Most people experience anxiety — it’s how your brain keeps you safe. It becomes a problem when it starts running your life instead of protecting it. If you’re losing sleep, avoiding things you care about, or your brain feels like a browser with 87 tabs open, it might be time for extra support.
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Everything from panic attacks and social anxiety to perfectionism, people-pleasing, and that constant “something’s wrong” hum. Basically, if your brain’s on high alert, we can work with that.
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Totally normal. Anxiety hates change — even good change. You don’t have to show up calm; you just have to show up. We’ll handle the rest together.